Surrogacy not common in region
By Mary Pickels, Sunday Tribune-Review, PA,
November 7, 2004
Eighteen years ago, a woman who agreed to conceive, carry
and then turn over a child to a man and his infertile wife
had a change of heart. Thus, the nation was introduced to
Baby M. and surrogacy came out of the closet.
After agreeing to accept $10,000 for “compensation
for services and expenses,” Marybeth Whitehead, of
New Jersey, was artificially inseminated with William Stern’s
sperm. Nine months later she delivered a baby girl, renounced
payment and tried to keep the child.
The lengthy court battle was decided in 1988, when the
Supreme Court of New Jersey invalidated the parties’
surrogacy contract. Stern was awarded custody, with Whitehead
given weekly visitation rights.
The decision prohibited additional surrogacy arrangements
in New Jersey, unless the surrogate mother volunteered to
act without payment and was given the right to change her
mind later.
Since then, surrogacy has become a more commonly accepted
method of achieving parenthood.
Celebrities, including former “Good Morning America”
host Joan Lunden and former “Frazier” actors
Kelsey Grammer and Peri Gilpin, all have publicly acknowledged
using surrogates.
Surrogacy laws vary state by state. In Pennsylvania, no
law regulates surrogacy.
Couples become parents
In western Pennsylvania, surrogacy is not a common practice
at hospitals offering other reproductive services.
Dr. Anthony N. Wakim, board certified in obstetrics, gynecology
and reproductive endocrinology and infertility, is medical
director of assisted reproductive technology at Pittsburgh’s
Magee-Womens Hospital in Oakland.
The hospital lists surrogacy among its services, but Wakim
prefers the term “gestational carriers.” As
opposed to “traditional” surrogacy, in which
the surrogate donates her own egg, gestational carriers
are genetically unrelated to the babies they carry. The
embryos are formed from the eggs and sperm of the biological
parents.
The hospital does not offer traditional surrogacy because
of the potential for legal problems.
Gestational surrogacy, Wakim said, is “less of an
entangled issue.”
The practice is only a few years old at Magee, he said,
and is usually done for women who have fertility problems.
Although the practice is growing, Wakim said, “It’s
obviously not for everybody.”
Typically, he said, the intended mother should be under
age 40 and have a good reserve of eggs.
The age of the surrogate is important as well.
“The younger they are, the more children thy have
had, the better off they are,” Wakim said. “Older
women tend to have more (medical) problems – high
blood pressure, diabetes.”
The hospital does not recruit surrogates; many couples,
he said, come in with a potential surrogate, often a family
member or friend.
A great deal of counseling is provided by participants,
he said. After conception, the carriers then visit the obstetrician
of their (or the parents’) choice.
The resulting pregnancies tend to be successful, Wakim
said.
He estimated the hospital performs about 10 such procedures
a year.
“We get patients from all over Pennsylvania, West
Virginia, Ohio, occasionally overseas,” he said.
Wakim views the option as simply another way to help a
couple have a family.
“It would be a tragedy if these couples are not helped,”
he said. “The ingredients are there.”
Legal accountability
Perhaps the most watched surrogacy case at present involves
Erie County resident Danielle Bimber and Ohio resident James
Flynn. Bimber, the mother of three children with her husband,
agreed to be a surrogate for Flynn and his fiancée,
Eileen Donich. Flynn is the biological father of three boys
who will turn 1 year old Nov. 19, conceived with an anonymous
egg donor and carried by Bimber.
Bimber said Flynn and Donich failed to claim the boys after
their birth. She took them home from the hospital and is
seeking custody.
Erie County Judge Shad Connelly awarded her temporary custody
in April. Flynn and Donich have visitation privileges.
Flynn has characterized Bimber as someone who “was
paid for a service.”
Connelly has asked the Legislature to take a legal stand
on surrogate contracts and how enforceable they should be.
Pittsburgh attorney Bruce Wilder believes that if Pennsylvania
had its own model of the Uniform Parentage Act, drafted
by the National Conference of Commissioners on Uniform State
Laws, “This case probably never would have happened.”
The UPA was adopted by 19 states in 1973, laying out rules
for the presumption of parentage. The original law did not
address certain issues, including divorce and infertility.
A newer version addresses the “surrogate mother,”
and suggests that a gestational agreement be reviewed by
a court, just as an adoption agreement is.
Wilder practices health law with the firm Wilder &
Mahood. He also serves on the American Bar Association’s
law of genetics and reproductive technology committee. He
has not dealt with any surrogacy cases in this region.
After Baby M, he said, a few states adopted the Uniform
Status of Children of Assisted Conception Act. It includes
court approval of surrogacy agreements.
“It’s a pretty good plan as to how to handle
these cases,” Wilder said. “The process of going
to court puts them (intended parents) on the record as legally
bound to be parents of this child.”
Wilder has no problem with the concept of surrogacy in
general. He does think, however, that forms of assisted
reproduction and clinics should be regulated.
“My own personal bias is, if I wanted to raise a
child and I could not have one with my own genes, I would
adopt one,” Wilder said. “But some people want
a child with their own genes…I thin it (surrogacy)
is a reasonable thing to do, make some embryos and find
a surrogate. I think it’s something that should be
permitted.”
Baby on board
Attorney Melissa Brisman has a reproductive law agency and
practices in New Jersey, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania and
New York. Because she was unable to carry a child, her eggs
were fertilized with her husband’s sperm and placed
in a gestational carrier, a process that has produced three
children for the couple.
In Maine, where her first two children were born, she successfully
petitioned the court to have her and her husband’s
names placed on the babies’ birth certificates. Otherwise,
they would have had to adopt their own biological children.
Brisman’s agency advertises throughout the country,
including recently in the Greensburg Pennysaver. The ad
sought women to carry couples’ biological babies.
It requested women ages 21-45 and required that they have
previous birth experience. Nonsmokers were requested and
“generous compensation” offered.
Magee was the only surrogacy facility Brisman knew of in
the western part of the states. There are several in central
and eastern Pennsylvania.
“People who want a baby will travel,” she said.
Would-be parents, she said, need a carrier and paperwork.
The firm also helps the couple and surrogate select a clinic
for the medical procedure.
The result, she said, is the birth of more than 100 babies
a year.
“You want somebody who wants to do it, who wants
to help somebody, somebody who’s healthy,” Brisman
said.
Fees for parents, including carrier reimbursement, attorney’s
fees, carrier insurance and other related costs, can average
$30,000 to $40,000, according to Brisman’s agency.
That figure excludes medical costs for the in vitro fertilization
procedure, which some couples’ own insurance policies
will cover.
Obtaining birth orders before the second trimester, she
said, can help eliminate situations like the one in Erie.
Although a surrogate may later change her mind, pre-birth
orders show that she relinquished any claims during her
pregnancy.
Brisman said none of her surrogates have reneged after
giving birth.
“The case in Erie County puts a bad name to the entire
process,” she said.
If the case leads to legislation that halts surrogacy in
Pennsylvania, she said, “It would be a disgrace…Usually,
these things go off without a hitch.”
Surrogate: ‘I know I helped somebody’
By Mary Pickels, Tribune-Review
By her nid-30s, Lebanon County resident Barbara McMullen
was a divorced mother of four. Believing her family
was complete, she underwent sterilization. After remarrying,
she had the procedure reversed and had two more children.
“I got pregnant right away,” McMullen,
43, said. “I just felt really lucky.”
Later, McMullen spotted an advertisement from attorney
Melissa Brisman, who operates a reproductive law practice
in New Jersey. Brisman seeks women to act as gestational
surrogates, carrying embryos for couples unable to
have successful pregnancies.
McMullen thought about it for several years. Then
she obtained some information and talked with her
obstetrician, her pastor and her husband. They all
believed she was a healthy candidate whose reasons
for considering surrogacy were valid.
“There is the money issue,” McMullen
said. “No matter what you are compensated, you
are going through a lot…If you are doing it
just for the money, who’s to say your best interest
is the baby?”
McMullen has since given birth to three children,
including a set of twins, for two couples. She is
pondering a third pregnancy some time after the new
year, before she turns 45, the cut-off age at Brisman’s
agency.
She discusses her experience publicly because she
believes other women should consider acting as surrogates
and wants to offer her own experience as an educational
opportunity.
McMullen, an at-home mother, met the first couple
in spring 2002. By April, she was implanted with their
previously frozen embryo at a New Jersey fertility
clinic. Within 10 days, blood work confirmed the pregnancy.
The parents attended some of McMullen’s check-ups,
including a sonogram and amniocentesis, which showed
the baby was a girl.
He day she delivered, the couple picked her up and
drove her to the Harrisburg Hospital. They stayed
in the delivery room as their daughter was born. McMullen’s
oldest daughter, a registered nurse, also was present.
Upon discharge, the parents drove her home.
“We said our good-byes and they went home and
I went home,” she said.
“To me, it’s all a mindset,” McMullen
said. “I knew the baby was not mine.”
Her two preschoolers, she said, were told that their
mother was carrying a baby for another woman “whose
belly was broken.”
She believes her actions have taught all of her children
a lesson in giving.
In the fall of 2003, she conceived again.
Last July, the twins, a boy and a girl, were born
11 minutes apart at the Reading Hospital and Medical
Center.
McMullen stays in touch with both families, from
weekly e-mails to occasional visits.
“You don’t think that this is your baby,”
she said. “(Their) DNA will never come back
to me….My bond is with the moms. We hope to
always stay in touch…I can’t imagine it
fizzling out, but I can’t say it won’t.”
“to me,” she said, “the emotional
part is harder than the physical part. I don’t
mean giving up the baby…It takes a lot of work
to get to the point where we (she and the parents)
are. It involves a lot of trust. It’s almost
like you would do it for your sister.”
McMullen said she would not have considered a traditional
surrogacy – using her own eggs.
“It has nothing to do with the legal (aspect).
That, to me, would be like taking one of my kids now
and giving them to someone,” she said.
McMullen said compensation varies and is worked out
via contracts. Single-fetus compensation, she said,
runs from about $13,000 to $17,000, while multiple
births range from $17,000 to $20,000.
Her own insurance covered her deliveries.
Even guardianship is written into the contract, should
anything happen to the parents after the child’s
birth.
McMullen said she got very little negative feedback.
“I get bombarded with questions, and it’s
all good,” she said. “the biggest question
I am asked is, ‘How could you give away the
baby?’ It’s not my baby.”
“At first I questioned myself. ‘Am I
not a good woman because I can bear a child and not
bond with it?’…If something was wrong
with it, these people would never have their families.”
McMullen recalled watching the second set of parents
walk out of the hospital, each carrying a baby in
a car seat.
“I don’t know what other people’s
beliefs or religions are,” she said. “I
know I felt purpose driven…I can die saying
I know I helped somebody.”
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